Thursday 10 April 2014

Leading from the inside out - Discover Your "Personal Mastery"

"You are led through your lifetime by the inner learning creature, the playful spirit being that is your real self. Dont turn away from possible futures before you're certain you don't have anything to learn from them. you're always free to change your mind and choose a different future, or different past"

I am very fortunate, that in my life I am grateful to be trusted to support and coach many people to achieve a much more fulfilled life. In the beginning of our partnership we have to look at the yesterday and today's world, what is the reality today, which I know you will be able to relate to, as I do,


  • How do I become the person I want to be?
  • I want more confidence?
  • I am currently more than what I am actually living?
  • I am stressed as a manger in my workplace?
  • I have just not enough time in the day?
  • I never get that job or promotion?
  • I can never get fit?
  • I try to eat healthy?
  • I want a better relationship with my kids?
  • I want the magic back, the feeling when I first met my partner or held my children for first time?
  • I find it hard to communicate with my teenagers?
  • Me and my partner are living separate lives?
  • How do I become more successful in what I do?
  • Why do I worry so much?
  • How can I become a leader in all areas of my life?
  • I want to be more happy and fulfilled?
  • Why cant I make a decision?
  • I drink too much?
  • I am stuck and cannot move on?
  • Why do my moods go up and down?
  • How do I stop overeating?
  • How do I change my habits?
  • I am angry all the time?
  • I cannot get over my marriage break up?
  • I struggle to get on with my boss?
  • How do I make my relationship work?
  • How do I make my business successful or more successful?
  • I just want a relationship?


In the beginning of our partnership, we start by acknowledging ..........

 " Listen you were not born with this "challenge", Can we agree on that initially"? 

I am always fascinated with the Human imagination, If we could all go onto achieving all our goals in what we actually imagined for ourselves, what would life be like for us, what would it really look like and feel like? " what is this magical place"?, what is it you see, hear, feel........."?

Actually how many of us actually believe what we imagine, we can actually go out and strive to achieve all those thoughts, I love my job because its my job to bring this to reality for you.

"Living each day knowing you know nothing in comparison to what is to know about the planet and universe, what would happen to your thinking about the future and the areas in your life, just a thought" 

Starting point for me is a very simple one, "What was the yesterday and today agenda", but now more importantly lets explore the tomorrow agenda..........., we then embrace a timeline of a journey as we are now at the starting line to accelerate you to achieving the new you, the one you cry and scream in side to be. 

Its Time to glow................................ Are you Ready...............?


For over 30 years I have been obsessed with the stories people tell us from all walks of life, through the language, "What do people tell themselves and what language do the use, what do they actually assume and believe in the world they live in", Back in the 1970s and 1980s I studied why society was split into two worlds. I would watch and listen how the working class were inspired to train and maintain a trade but never inspired to own the business. Limitations were set within societies, through to education, never having a real FOCUS on Physical fitness, a real understanding on Nutrition, What was a enterprise?, to really understanding who you are and what are emotions? How do you control emotions? , or even development on understanding money and also what is time, now this may sound ridiculous to some people, yet all these indicators create huge challenges across multiple lives throughout our Life journey to this day. 

For many years I have employed hundreds of people across my own businesses and others I consulted for or was actually employed by, when the people entered the room to be interviewed, I would regularly lift the CV and throw it out of the window and then ask,  "You know what, tell me who you really are, but please leave out education and previous places of employment", a real silence would fall in the room the majority of the time and this was for all levels of employment being recruited? Its a hard question " Who are you and what do you want at all areas and levels in life" 


My job is to inspire people to believe they can get the life they want!

So when I work with people to achieve Personal Mastery and coach people to overcome current  or past challenges here are some of the indicators to finding mastery in life.... I will warn you the world will never look the same again, you empower yourself to create an amazing transformation for yourself, truly discovering your identity and purpose.



So we start with......... People always ask me what is it you do, which is a very hard question as all programmes are adapted to each individual as we lead different lives, different beliefs, come from different cultures, we live in different parts within society and have many varied different backgrounds, but one thing for sure you will be moved and challenged but more rewarding is you will accelerate in the blink of an eye with a new aligned blue print. I will not make you do it, you will do it with a new clear vision for the life you want.



Understanding Who are we, Do we actually know the answer to this question? 
The Leading Self Book: What is your Story as "This is Your Life"

Six Areas.

1: The Journey so far, We explore the past to the present. Where you have been and
where you are now.

2: The possibility for your future—who you can become, and where you want to go.

3: The Challenges, We explore the reality of where you are now and the hurdles you have to overcome to kick of from the blocks.

4: The Personal Mastery area explores the way you manage your day-to-day reality, so you can get
the outcomes you need to get to where you want to go. Now we introduce marginal gains , the actual detail in how you currently measure where you are and where you are going.

5: The 6 inches explores your latest feedback/performance measures, and your commitments to continued growth and learning.

6: The Self-Coach supports your progress by providing anchors of  actions you can take when you are confronted by specific issues. coping strategies and growth strategies to maintain the motivation.

My Journey so far - The Leader In me

Explores the past to the present—where you have been and where you are now. (When has the Leader within you shown up in your timeline)

  1. My life story - The Jigsaw box - we create a new picture for front of the box but explore how many pieces we need.
  2. My leadership Life story - Sustaining Leadership consistently through Visionary pictures.
  3. My positive role models - Measurements through to beyond this energy field.
  4. Leadership mastery in Life - My Potential - What are the possibilities for my future—who you can become, and where you want to go. 
  5. My personality profile 
  6. My strengths/unique abilities 
  7. My personal values - What is important to me 
  8. My values/beliefs/behaviours traits
  9. My senses
  10. My purpose/Identity at work and in life
  11. My motivation drivers in life
  12. My personal Discovery and Vision to pyramid of Life and Fulfilment.
  13. Who Am I - Who are my Role Models - What lies beyond that field of energy.
My Challenges - Are they really Challenges

  1. What really is a bad day for you - Reversal of mindset in how we think 
  2. My anxiety states - What are your daily feelings and emotional states.
  3. My stressors in life -enviroment around you
  4. My Disappointments -  How they are measured
  5. My conflicts - internal and external
  6. My fears and beliefs - My reality in how I view the world
  7. The Saboteur 
  8. My Limiting Beliefs.
Personal Mastery 

  1. Self Awareness
  2. My personal mastery activity 
  3. Using what is important to you to make decisions 
  4. Pyramid of Life 
  5. Creativity
  6. Communication - Communication is about response you get
  7. Persistence in motivation 
  8. Personal Vision
  9. Strategic thinking
  10. Extreme Leadership across your life
  11. Assertive Decision making
  12. Modelling Excellence
  13. Quantum Jumping - Twinning 
  14. Senses.
My 6 inches - Marginal gains - feedback/ performance measures, and your commitments to Personal Vision -growth - Development. 

  1. My feedback/performance (Johari Window) 
  2. My identity 
  3. My sustainability of daily motivation 
  4. My physiology
  5. My level of Fulfilment 
  6. My Mindset
  7. My personal consciousness - Where do I live?
  8. My commitments to the future Personal Vision
  9. Measurements of Pyramid.

The Self-Coach supports your progress by providing anchors of  actions you can take when you are confronted by specific issues. coping strategies and growth strategies to maintain the motivation.

  1. Accountability for Personal Mastery -You can be shown direction but you maintain the path you walk.
  2. Accountability for coping strategies
  3. Entrepreneurship - Leading yourself through to Leading a community 
  4. Leadership Mastery
  5. Maintaining the Vision
  6. Wisdom Mastery 
  7. Business Mastery 
  8. Resourcefulness Mastery 

I am very fortunate to have worked with many people and businesses for many years, I have acquired many life and business skills from around the world in last 25 years. The people who align themselves to me reap huge benefits from my life experiences.

Getting the Most from this Experience, 

To get the most from your commitment :

  • Allow yourself in a safe and trusted enviroment to be completely open minded to experience 
  • Embrace Feed back
  • Embrace change
  • Be very honest and open at all times
  • Keep Talking
  • Understand that in everything you do from this day forward " Needs work"
  • You will accept that you will be moving from the known to the unknown world, challenging yourself.
  • In the beginning you will be excited, tired, restless, eager to get busy, more passionate about life, have much more energy, you will smile constantly for no reason, you will be more fulfilled, you will see the world in a whole new light.
  • Allow everything to flow to release all blockages
  • Keep a journal throughout your journey.
  • Be Committed and disciplined in accepting what is the unknown to you today
  • You will be completely more fulfilled within yourself
  • You will be hungry for growth in all areas of your life.
To explore more about the programme email stevie@steviekidd.co.uk for more information.

Website: www.steviekidd.co.uk 



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